As you approach your 40s, your reproductive years are starting to wind down, and that means changes in your hormones. These changes are inevitable, but the severity of your symptoms depends on your overall health and your knowledge of what is going on in your body and what to do about it. There are actually so many facets to understand about these changes and how to transition smoothly, that I’d encourage you to check out the Hormone Balance after 40 Summit which is going to dive much deeper than we can in a blog.
Nevertheless, let’s briefly review the hormonal changes that occur at peri-menopause and menopause, and then we’ll look at how to optimize your health and avoid weight gain, headaches, memory lapses, hot flashes, moodiness and insomnia.
Menopause is when your period stops altogether, and the average age for this is 51. But peri-menopause, a word rarely heard in our culture, is the 5-10 year period of hormonal fluctuation that leads to menopause. It is usually these years that are most challenging.
During peri-menopause, your ovaries are in a transition phase; this is a part of normal aging. But your brain still tries to keep the ovaries working, and some months it’s successful and you ovulate; sometimes it’s not and you don’t. The varying hormone levels that occur in these monthly attempts to keep cycling are what can cause symptoms.
Tip #1- Avoid Estrogen Dominance
The main hormone imbalance you’ll experience is called estrogen dominance. The amount of estrogen you have is higher relative to progesterone. (Progesterone is only produced in high quantities after a strong ovulation.) Estrogen can be extra dominant when you are are getting xeno-estrogens from things like plastics and fragrances, or if you’re overweight, as fat tissue produces estrogen.
Estrogen dominance can lead to the dreaded heavy periods, frequent periods and mid-cycle spotting of peri-menopause.
You can do many things to reduce estrogen. Here are a few:
- Avoid non-organic, processed foods, plastics and artificial fragrances that contain xeno-estrogens.
- Eat a wide variety of fruit and vegetable fibers that nourish your good gut bacteria. Your gut helps you clear used estrogens! How many strange vegetables can you buy & try?
- Manage your weight. An easy way to slim down is to avoid sugars in coffee drinks, alcoholic drinks and treats. Stick to it for a couple weeks and watch your muffin top melt!
Tip #2- Love On Your Adrenals
As your ovaries slow down and produce less hormone, ideally your adrenal glands will bridge the gap and keep you feeling well. But you’re likely stressed with working, managing a household, and perhaps raising kids or caring for elderly parents. This often means your adrenal glands have been overworked for years as you’ve lived in ‘flight or fight’ mode. So now it’s time to really love up on your adrenals!
Here’s how:
- Get to sleep by 10 PM. There is a deeper level of restoration that happens when you are asleep in the hours before midnight. Try it each night for a week and notice your energy improve!
- Get vitamin C. Your adrenal glands use a LOT of vitamin C, especially when you’re stressed or dealing with chronic inflammation, viruses, etc. You can use ½ lemon in water first thing in the morning and again in early afternoon. You can also look for a supplement with vitamin C plus bioflavonoids, and take 1,000 mg /day twice a day, if your doctor approves.
- Take rest breaks. Do you want a break? Of course you do! As women, we drive ourselves hard. But you have to take care of you; there is no one else in charge of your care. Try these two tips: After lunch, take a 10 minute lie down. Yes, lie down flat and just rest. If you work outside the home, maybe bring a yoga mat to work and find a quiet place, or go to your car. If it’s nice you can go lie outside. Then as your day closes, but before dinner, take your 10 minute lie down again. You can’t just read this, you really have to do it! You’ll feel the reset when you do take these short breaks.
Tip #3- Get A Good Night’s Rest
Many women have trouble falling asleep and staying asleep, and sleep is super important at this time in life. We produce growth hormone as we sleep, and this growth hormone repairs and rebuilds us; sleep is the fountain of youth! Here are a few ideas if you’re having trouble:
- If you are having trouble falling asleep because of a busy mind, take time to wind down at night. Read a book, take a stroll or take a bath. Avoid screens and turn down the lights around the house. If you still need help, try drinking a ½ teaspoon of nutmeg in warm almond milk a bit before bedtime. You’ll be surprised how sleepy it makes you!
- For an aromatherapy approach, dab a few drops of pure vetiver and pure lavender oils under your nose and at your temples. Or use a cold mist diffuser to spread this goodness into your bedroom air.
- If you wake up during the night, you can still try the above tips, and you may need to look at your blood sugar and liver function. You should be able to burn stored energy as you sleep. If you body can’t do this, your body will spike your energy levels to release blood sugar, and you’ll wake up. Be sure to avoid alcohol, sugar and high carbohydrate foods before bed. Try not to snack between meals and get plenty of healthy fat in your diet from coconut oil, raw nuts, avocados, grass-fed butter or ghee, etc. If you have a great diet, don’t snack, and go to bed early, waking up in the middle of the night may indicate a more complex problem. If your liver is working overtime at night to deal with parasites or other infections, it can’t manage your blood sugar at night as well. This is no diagnosis, just something to consider with your functional health practitioner!
There are MANY more tips on how to thrive in peri-menopause and menopause on the upcoming free summit, Hormone Balance After 40. You’ll hear from 30+ experts on the topics like:
- Boosting your Metabolism
- Having fewer Hormonal Headaches
- Restoring Mental Clarity
The best part is that it’s all free and you can attend online from any computer or smartphone! Register here for your own Hormone Balance After 40!
Guest post by Bridgit Danner, LAc, FDNP, founder of Women’s Wellness Collaborative
hmmm . . . i’ve been experiencing “weight gain, headaches, memory lapses, hot flashes, moodiness, and insomnia.” my hormones have been going crazy! (i’m well over 40 and in menopause. it’s been 2 years since i’ve had a menstrual cycle.) LOVE all the straightforward tips! i’ve been trying to do several of them, but i’ve been engrossed in a huge all-encompassing project for the past 7.5 months (2 weeks to go!), and have been neglecting a few important things. thank you for this lovely list, bridgit.
As a survivor of endometriosis, I had a hysterectomy. This post is VERY helpful to me though as I DO have alot of the issues that come with menopause. That being so, thank you! I go back and forth with being emotional about it. I think that everything happens for a reason though. This earth is so beautiful and there are really so many wonderful reasons for me to be here. I do have a question is being emotional a part of menopause too? I’m talking about crying for absolutely NO reason at all. Anyway, great post. 🙂
Thanks Bridgit for this very informative post—I loved the info. about sleep…had no idea going to bed by 10pm could be so important. And oh yes Adrenal Fatigue—going to add some Vitamin C. Such actionable tips—my favorite, one I do every day in the morning is 1/2 lemon in water.
These are all fantastic and in theory I know I should do them, but don’t.. I am trying to give myself the time for even a 10 minute break when i need it.. Thank you for the reminder! Any advice on increased exercise? I am trying to do that and I admit it is much more difficult than when I was in my 20s and 30s.. should I just toss my favorite jeans from my 30s or has my body changed so much that I need to accept I may never be that size again?
Thanks for this very informative post. I feel this will be very beneficial for women going into their 40’s.
I appreciate this post very much! I’m not getting any younger, and it’s good to have some very helpful information on finding my balance!
Great tips! I’m not 40’ yet but know it’ll be challenging going through the hormonal changes:(
I didn’t know that avoiding non-organic, processed foods can help find hormone balance. This is an interesting topics for women on their 40s and on their prime.
Oh wow. I have learned a few things from reading this post. That thing about processed food was an eye-opener! Will share this post with my friends too.
Thanks for these tips! These are great and helpful!
How interesting how Vitamin is really so ‘vital’ throughout the stages of our lives! Thanks for this wonderful and insightful post. It helps prepare us all, whether you are over 40 or under.